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How to deal with a selfish man! (is he worth the long haul?)

 

people in general are selfish beings. But men can be some of the most selfish people because if their ego. Do you notice that most books on dating cater to how women should woo a man? you never see a book for men on how to be a better husband, boyfriend or lover. Why is that? because with men its often a one-sided thing. You give so much of yourself, only to get crumbs. How do you know you are dealing with such a man? well here are the signs:

1. He never does what you want, he only does an activity where he would like it.

2. He never listens to  your needs, the more you talk about it, the more he ignores your pleas.

3. His problems are bigger than yours, if you have a problem he is not really concerned. but he expects you to be more concerned with his.

4.He isn't thoughtful, no flowers just because, or no love letters to you.

5.He wants sex his way, he is never concerned as to what you like or how to please you.

6.Only does what you want when you threaten to leave.

7.Blindly expects you to do and like what hes likes.

 

So is there hope for a man like this? most likely not. But you can try by having a conversation with him about what you need from him. If the same behavior goes on. Its time to jump ship, because if a man truly cares about a woman, he will stop at nothing to get her and keep her. Men stress out if they lose out on the woman of their dreams. But if they feel lukewarm over you, then he is not worth the time. There are plenty of men out there with lots of love to give and you just need to find the right one that will give you the love you need. But a selfish guy is just that. He is all about himself and he cares about himself soooo much, he feels you should be too, but there are other deities to worship and he is not it!