Regulating the Game: Controlling YOUR dating world

Its been 5 years. You have the kids, the boyfriend and the home. Wait. YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND!?!?!??!?! something is wrong in this equation. You are probably wondering how did you get there? well,  you made life too comfortable for him. He cares about you, but honestly, he will not marry you because there is no need too. you live together and have kids and he will not marry you because? well, he is leaving the possibility of something better coming along. Sorry, but that is the truth. Men marry you because, either they are scared to lose you or they don't want to die alone. But in both instances, they do love you. Your baby daddy has some love for you, but his has conditions and that is a problem. So I know what you are saying "well what the hell am I supposed to do!!!" Well, its a hard road between getting out of being a baby momma to wife. You can at least try. You need to throw little hints around the house. wedding magazine should be on the coffee table lol. Ask

When you first date, everything is soooo sweet, he picks you up on time, he takes you where you want to go, but then after like 2 dates. This fool ends up at your house, eating up alllll your food and you are so desperate to go out you start paying for dates and it comes to the point you have to fight with him to get up off your couch and do anything period! How did it come to this? and why are you putting up with it???? well as soon as the relationship begins you need to set ground rules from the jump and if he is bails early, don't fret! at least you know now you were dealing with a man instead of a boy. I know the economy is super bad right now. but sorry. we live in a wonderful country called America and there is no excuse for a man to not find a creative way to have a nice evening. There are discount sights that you can have 2 for 1 date. so there is nooooo excuse period! but aside from than. how much do you allow when you first meet a guy? do you give it up too soon? are

It has all happened to us. The good old dry spell. No matter how much we put ourselves out there, we cannot find a date or even get a man to look in our direction. Why does this happen you ask? there are several factors that can attribute to you being all on your lonesome: 1. facial expressions:  how do you look when you are walking around? do you have and soft inviting face? or do you have a scowl? Take into consideration how hard it is for a man to approach a woman. Your face may give him reason to veer away. 2. picking the wrong places to meet a guy: sorry, the club will not be the ideal place to meet a fella really. You would have better time finding a guy in the dark! You need to reevaluate the places you are looking for a man 3. Man Energy equals man response: I know it sounds hella silly. But don't you notice that when you are dating a man, other men come out of the woodwork! why is that? who knows? but since you have no man to begin with you need to have some of t