Regulating the Game: Controlling YOUR dating world

Sometimes we can stand in our own way when it comes to finding the right person to be in a relationship with. Some times we think in terms of "will he like me?" "am I good enough for him" when you should be saying, is he good enough for me!!there are so many deadly sins that women attempt and they have no idea that maybe they are the ones responsible for being alone. A lot of women say there are no good men, when in turn, there are good  men, But they keep looking for the BAD ones! accepting unacceptable behavior, doing things sexually that they feel uncomfortable with, Rewarding bad behavior and so on. Its not good to put yourself down (please look at my "why are you beating yourself up? post) go out of your way for a man that does not go out of his way for you and so on. Having a bad attitude and over bearing behavior, lack of femininity are many more bad qualities you may be harboring. You have to do some closet cleaning with your soul. How do you see you

It is a bad habit that people, especially women always put themselves down. And its not healthy to ones self image and well being. Do you realize that if you say things like "I'm fat" "I'm ugly" "I'm not as smart, hot, pretty as her" you are basically hypnotizing yourself to affirm the very things you say? if you really took the time to listen to each thought you have. You would be surprised to see how many of them are negative. At this time in your life, you might not be in the most lucrative job, you might be overweight, and you might feel less than. But you telling yourself this day in and day out is not the way to go! what progress are you gaining for yourself if you continue to say you are not the greatest and the best you can be! You have to be proactive. Its not a task for the weak, and no one says its going to be easy, but whatever you say about yourself, do the opposite. You don't feel pretty? Get a makeover. You hate your job?