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FWB is a trap! don't fall for it!

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Friends With Benefits or FWB as its called. Boy oh boy did men invent the best way to control and manipulate a woman. FWB means you are friends, but you have sex once in a while. But honestly it means you are just around for sex. till they get tired of you and want to move on. The man does not have to take you out, he does not have to have you around his friends, and if he wants to date a girl or disappear, Its okay cause you are only friends. Meanwhile he gets to take the time to confuse your head by having you over and maybe you going out once in a while. Well this is all wrong, either you are friends (meaning platonically) or you are together. And if a man tells you he is not ready for a relationship, you need to ask yourself how you are good enough to be screwed, but not good enough to commit to. This FWB invention is the best setup for men, they can have their cake and eat it too. No commitment, but they can have the panties at their will. And if they decide to actually date a g

Dating timelines where are you at?

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In the realm of dating there is a certain timeline that one should follow so they are up on the game. For some of us, it may be too late, for most, we may be right on time. But here is how it goes 16-22  testing the waters At this stage, you should be getting you feet wet, having fun. testing out what you like in a guy. Nothing serious, just having fun and practicing in the dating game 22-25 Looking for potentials here you are looking for who may be Mr right, still having fun, but really taking a serious approach as to who will be worth being with in the future. Time varies as you may grow apart or find men not up to par and have to start again 25-29 The tie down You should be in an established relationship by now. Having spent at least 2 or three years seriously. Your families should know you both well, you have traveled together and now making plans to live together and get married 29-34 The union Now you should be married. Having your first set of children, lived int and s