Regulating the Game: Controlling YOUR dating world

 The real truth is that hotness in this society equals power, brains is essential. But the  badder you are in the game the more power you have over men, and in turn more power for yourself. I laugh at the dove commercial This campaign flopped. Lets be real, no customer would want to buy soap if they thought they would look ordinary. Although in a perfect world it would be nice if we could look like anything and be appreciated, but I'm not here to lie to you like the media does. I'm here to tell you real life, and in this life you better be hot to get the things you want and need in life. Lets look at Kim.k. Really look at her. What the hell does she do for a living????? could you even say? well, nothing, yet she has shows about her and is on so many magazine covers and perfume lines dedicated to her. There are even some salons that give you the "Kimmy" special which is a dark dye job, tan, and seaweed wrap that is supposed to give you that a "heftier" b

I love how the media (specifically the hip hop media) drummed up this notion that a woman that wants security, and maybe a occasional acknowledgment of her love and devotion is a gold digger. Now I'm not saying that goldiggers don't exist, they do. however, women who just want a decent guy with a job are getting lumped in this category, and women are being brainwashed to feel bad that they should want a man that has his own and is willing to support and share the fruits of his labor. Songs like "shes got her own" by Neo is praised as such a great song but when "bills, bills, bills" came out from the now defunct Destiny Child. its was labeled  a goldigger  anthem  when if you listen to the lyrics she was really complaining about how he was using her: And now you ask to use my car Drive it all day and don't fill up the tank And you have the audacity To even come and step to me And ask to hold some money from me Until you get your check next week

When I discovered today that Steve Harveys ex wife went on a tirade on YouTube. I kept and open mind. After watching all the videos, after seeing her mannerisms, I do believe her. This is classic of men. They use you for your talents and then they when they get what they want, they toss you aside for a younger, newer model. Ebony, July, 1998 by Lynn Norment, James Mitchell "Money: "I ain't going to tell you how much money I make, but if you ask me if I am a millionaire, I'll say, yes, I'm a good, solid millionaire. Could I lose a million dollars and survive? Yes. I'm blessed. Believe me, I owe that to Mary." The woman is not lying! He used her and toss her aside. And he is now suing her because Oprah didn't give him a show because he thinks she was talking about him behind his back. smh. I read Steve Harvey's book "Act like man," blah blah blah. And he actually stated in the book that a man can still cheat and love you. That if

Another key factor in regulating the game is to be a ruthless bitch. I know you are probably saying, "that is wrong, I would not want to do that"  well do you think that men think about  your feelings? do you really think that they will stay around while you get fat, or lose a leg or get old??? yes, there are some men that will stay with you, but they are few.  So why should you spend energy being nice to a man when his love is conditional? why do you think men like pretty women? because pretty women don't go out of their way for men. They are difficult and bitchy.  That is what you need to be. Men respect women that treat them like shit. The nicer you'll be, the more they walk all over you. Do you ever see any good when a girl buys a guy a cell phone? pays for dates? and basically take care of him? I know, it feels good to something nice for someone, but men don't take kindness for weakness, they are dumber than dirt to think this way, but however, they do. I

 In order to manipulate your prey, (yes i did not stutter, you need to start thinking this way to be more empowered, you are the hunter, they are merely your prey lol) you have to know how they think, what they want and the more you know, the easier it will be to turn the game in  your direction. What men want is more than just a pretty face, a pretty face gets you in the door, a personality keeps you there. You must be different. You can not be like the others and there are ways of doing that.(upcoming book soon) You also have to be less clingy, more independent. these are key qualities that will put you above the rest in the game. if you keep these things in mind, you will be more in control! They may say all day that they want you to be a freak in the bed. But a real decent man is just giving you the hoe test. He may be all happy and such at first. But after awhile, even though he has participated in it, he will start thinking about how many times you have done those tricks and

So what is regulating the game? to me, dating is a game. you win some  you lose some. And in my opinion, the game is not in favor of women right now, the constant friends with benefits relationships, men telling women that they are just not ready to commit, and the "let it go with the flow" attitude, all of these guys attitudes are making women lose out on what a relationship should be, we are losing our strength, our dignity, and our futures as girlfriends and wives are hanging in the balance, I see that women deserve better, and I know the techniques and strategies that can get you there. Amy Winehouse, says love is a losing game, but I'm here to tell you that its a game that YOU can regulate! So bear with me. I will tell you some stuff that will really curl your toes, but you have to have an open mind and roll with it, use some of the techniques I give and next year may be the year that you can introduce the man of your dreams to marry, or more!

Yeah I said it, men are dumb. They will sleep with anyone, risk their safety for a thrill and if they cheat, they are too sloppy to hide the evidence. Since they are so dumb. They are really easy to manipulate. A cute face, a good meal, and a good lay is all it takes to get the attention of these simpletons. You must be hot to death, since men are purely visual you must look the part. Once you get their attention, you reel them in with your wit, and your bitchyness, yeah I said bitchyness. Men appreciate a bitch. So act like you don't give a eff, and you can reel them in. because if you have these qualities, men will fall for them with ease.

Its a new year and with that, a new way of thinking, some of you may start to go to the gym to lose weight, some may decided you want to go back to school or start your own business. But these new changes are not exciting unless you have someone to share them with. But theses days, with divorce at its highest point and singles being at its highest rate in history, its discouraging that one will find a decent mate that will be your knight in shining armor. Well, don't stress, that is what I'm here for. I have discovered the secrets of men and what it takes to harness them. and ladies you have got it all wrong, I being around men, they have told me how they think, what turns them on, and what turns them off about women. and I'm here to tell you almost everything women do these days are the exact opposite of what men like and what they are looking for, no wonder men and women cannot have meaningful relationships these days! I have had all sorts of techniques on what it takes t