FWB is a trap! don't fall for it!



Friends With Benefits or FWB as its called. Boy oh boy did men invent the best way to control and manipulate a woman. FWB means you are friends, but you have sex once in a while. But honestly it means you are just around for sex. till they get tired of you and want to move on. The man does not have to take you out, he does not have to have you around his friends, and if he wants to date a girl or disappear, Its okay cause you are only friends. Meanwhile he gets to take the time to confuse your head by having you over and maybe you going out once in a while. Well this is all wrong, either you are friends (meaning platonically) or you are together. And if a man tells you he is not ready for a relationship, you need to ask yourself how you are good enough to be screwed, but not good enough to commit to. This FWB invention is the best setup for men, they can have their cake and eat it too. No commitment, but they can have the panties at their will. And if they decide to actually date a girl and have a relationship with you, its okay, because you are only friends. Right? didn't your mother say "why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free"? I know alot of women will say that they agree with FWB too. But I'm not believing that for a second because women are loving individuals, men can screw women and come home to their wife and sleep at night. Women, deep down, you are screwing this so called "friend" just for that cuddle at the end. Some women are so desperate for affection, they are willing to give in sexually just so they can have that hug. well that is exactly why women are having such problems finding a man to commit. Men are only as good as the women around them. Men have hardly no respect for most women because women make things so easy for them and men are hunters by nature, so when you are giving it up to them, being their so called friend, you are just communicating to him that "I'm needy, I will do what ever you like to the lowest denominator just to have you around" friends don't play mind games, friends don't use you, friends don't have  you around till they tire of you.So you need to keep in mind that FWB does not mean "Friends With Benefits" it means "Females Without Beaus" Have some self respect and I know its hard to wait for that cuddle in the end, but the best things come to those who wait and its best to wake up in your loves arms for the majority of your life then for a season.

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  1. and there are those who will engage in the FWB even knowing that the friend harbors feelings for them and will not move on because they feel that there is hope in the "relationship" ... how messed up is that??

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