He is just not into you!

I know that sometimes rejection is a very hard blow to the ego but what is the use of being around a man that does not want you! you should never beat yourself up over a man that is not into you. 9 times out of 10. he was not worth it anyways. But don't get desperate, changing who you are, doing things that make you uncomfortable to keep him. None of it will make him want to keep you. If you are not sure if he is not into you here are some signs:

1. If he calls you late at night or only texts you most of the time

2.If he never takes you out and you are always at his house or vice- versa

3. You don't see him often only a couple of times a month and its only for sex.

4. You call him and he doesn't call you right away or you are always calling him.

5. If you go out, you are always paying.

6. He argues with you before holidays or you never get anything from him during the holidays

There are plenty more but if you find yourself doing things out of the ordinary to keep his interests and you are not happy or feel fulfilled after doing it. A man that is into you feels worse when you are sad, he does things to make you smile. He loves to make you laugh and he shares with you. He calls you all the time because he is thinking of you. He is thoughtful and caring. Again, there are more qualities that would give you an idea of what I mean but NEVER settle for less ladies. If it looks like you are bending over backwards then you need to be strong and leave his butt in the dust!

 

A man that is not into you cannot be changed into being into you. Whatever got him there, it will stay that way. It is possible that it could have been avoided when you just met him, but if the mistakes you made were planted, then its too late. Again, he is more than likely not worth it anyways because if a man really cares about you he would try to address the situation and solve the problem. He would confront you and tell you how he feels. So just move on from him. Take it as  a learning experience on what not to do. Or what not to look for in a man. But don't feel bad. Its his loss because you are a work of art in progress and when you come out of your shell? butterfly fly!  and look for a flower worthy of your time!