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If he cheats, should you just forgive and forget?????

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The whole controversy on whether you should forgive forget has hit an all time high. Stand by your man seems to be the case like in the Bill Clinton scandal to allegedly the jay-Z debacle. We are always told to forgive and forget, forgiveness heals all wounds, but there is a thin line between being forgiving and being a fool. If someone aggressively makes advances to win your affections, should you give them another chance based on their actions? I mean. If he is willing to tell your friends, family and possibly the world that he effed up, he deserves another chance right? Well you must consider a couple of factors before you take the forgiveness route: If he didn’t get caught, he would have still been doing it If the tables were turned how would he react to your infidelity, would he be forgiving? What are his reasons for the infidelity? Is he generally a selfish person or did this come out of left field? You also have to take into account that when this inf