conceit, is not a dirty word





Conceit, is a dirty word in our society, it means to think that you are more than you are, but who is to say how  much you are? there is nothing wrong with loving yourself. Its only  a problem when you think you are the only great one in the world but to have a very high confidence is a wonderful thing.

It makes you think about how crazy society is that, when a person boasts "I'm wonderful!' people turn their nose at them. But as soon as they say "I hate myself" everyone is ready to call Oprah and get the hankies out to console them.

Now, if everyone had self esteem. the diet market would be out of business. makeup companies would go bankrupt. And movie and music stars would be at home dreaming to be something else. All of these business latch on to ones esteem in one way or another. What I'm saying to you is. NEVER feel bad to love something about yourself. if you have beautiful eyes. ,then dammit state so! if you have flawless skin, then say "good morning flawless" everyday when you wake up in the morning. If you finally closed on that house. Then have the biggest housewarming you can imagine! and if someone says you are being conceited, that is because they are too scared to be the best that they can be! you have to be selfish sometimes. Embrace yourself and bask in the beauty that is YOU!  as women we are taught to love everyone first and take of of us last. We need to reprogram ourselves to stop feeling guilty every time we want to do something for ourselves,  we have to keep in mind that if we do better for ourselves, we can do better for our families and in turn for the world. so its not entirely selfish to get go to the spa and leave the kids to the baby sitter. Or finally see that cool new movie with a friend. Keep in mind that you have one life and you want to enjoy every moment and make the most of your life!

Again, never EVER feel guilty to love something you are or have done. Ignore the word conceit, its not in your vocabulary, it does not exist. its a foreign concept for you. When I feel good about myself, I'm proud, I feel strong, I feel great! you need to feel great too! no one is saying for you to gloat in others faces, just for you to cherish the moment! and if they say you are conceited  you tell them. "I don't know what conceited means! what I'm feeling is elation! go get some!"











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