Never let the green eyed monster get you!



I have noticed a disturbing trend that has been going on for some years now. Jealousy. Countless times I have seen a beautiful girl somewhere and then after she leaves someone would roll their eyes or say. "she isn't all that" what really gets my gourd is when someone says someone like Beyonce is not talented or not pretty, when we all know that anyone within a million mile radius would give their left arm to date her. And trust me, even if they say they wouldn't, they are lying lol.

One of the reasons women are not doing well in the dating world is because we do not have a sense of comrodery among women. We will make sure we have friends that are  less attractive than us so when we go out so we shine more, we get pissed if guys are hitting on our friend more than us. In some instances, we may even go out with our friends man just to see if we can get him away from her. I remember a guy once told me " women don't dress for themselves, they dress for other women" and its true. everyone wants to out do others, In essence, they care what the other woman think. They almost embrace the hate. Its the new self esteem.


The thing is that our perspective must change because in the end you are just putting out negative energy. When you see a woman prettier than you, admire her, figure out what it is that makes her beautiful, and harness that and become beautiful yourself.

Now I swear to all that is holy I made this blog before seeing this video. One of my readers sent it to me. And she basically is saying what I mean. its kinda spooky that this girl is in my head! lol.




 Beauty is power and if you don't have it. get it! but don't get mad at women that are there already. Yes there are some ugly mugs out there. That is the truth and that is life. But we have technology on our side to make us look at least presentable. You hating another woman will not make you prettier, smarter, more admired, it will just make you hate yourself more, it will make you more bitter and keep you in the same negative box you put yourself in by thinking you are not good enough. And you hating another woman is not going to stop her from looking good. She will continue to look good and possibly get more attention because men cannot stand insecure women. I've asked men what qualities they hate in women and they tell me time and time again that a women with low self esteem is a major turn off. You cannot measure your worth by how you measure up to other women. You have be your own competition. If you are okay looking, look better than you did last week, if you only have an Associates degree, then finish up and get a Bachelors degree, better yourself for yourself. There will always be someone taller, smarter, prettier, richer, more popular than you. So do you for you. Because you live and die with the body YOU are in. If you don't like it. You fight like hell to make it better and people will see that light shine through. So kill that green eyed monster in its tracks. And there is only one way...................................To make a better you!

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