Why wont he marry me!!!!!!



Its been 5 years. You have the kids, the boyfriend and the home. Wait. YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND!?!?!??!?! something is wrong in this equation. You are probably wondering how did you get there? well,  you made life too comfortable for him. He cares about you, but honestly, he will not marry you because there is no need too. you live together and have kids and he will not marry you because? well, he is leaving the possibility of something better coming along. Sorry, but that is the truth. Men marry you because, either they are scared to lose you or they don't want to die alone. But in both instances, they do love you. Your baby daddy has some love for you, but his has conditions and that is a problem. So I know what you are saying "well what the hell am I supposed to do!!!" Well, its a hard road between getting out of being a baby momma to wife. You can at least try. You need to throw little hints around the house. wedding magazine should be on the coffee table lol. Ask him how you would like to have a big party to celebrate your love (at least you can plant the thought in his head) I'm trying to be positive about this, but when it comes to marriage, its hard to go backwards. If you have no kids GREAT!!! don't have any till you get married. Marriage is a contract that states at least if things fall apart. Your man is legally bind to you and that is good for if you need to share health care benefits and if you need some alimony (yeah I said it!!) be real and be true to yourself. if you are are living as a wife without the contract and he won't budge? you might have to just deal with your situation because at least he is around for the kids. But try not to have anymore. More will not keep him there. it will just make him more prone to walk out the door. So keep it tight, right and don't lost sight! that you might, just might be the wife in your mans life!

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