Why not giving to much too soon will benifit you in the end

The problem most women have in the dating game is that they are willing to give to much and get nothing in return. Sometimes we have to hold back in order to gain. And I mean holding back the sex, the niceness, the overall attention that many women shower on men constantly. The key thing to remember always is men are hunters by nature. They love the thrill of the hunt. If you give them their meal early, they may hunger for it and gobble it up, but later they will be hungry and ready to eat again. And it will not be the same meal lol. So with that being said, you must make yourself a challenge, stop being so easy. so willing to please. Men will take that kindness for weakness and you will for sure get hurt in the long run. Now, I'm not saying you need to take take take and give nothing in return, but what I'm saying is that you need not give when nothing is being given to  you, and that can take the form of affection, gifts, and whatever you primarily desire. You do not reward non effort with gifts, your body and love and affection. Your efforts should only be made to seal the deal, meaning making the man yours, or to show appreciation for a large amount of effort  your man or potential man is making toward you in a monetary way. If your with a man and his idea of a date is sitting around the house, you need not make him dinner or take him anywhere, he immediately goes into "spare" status ( my book will delve into the pare and spare technique) Always remember a man will make a point to impress you, even when he has no money. If he has to save all month to take you somewhere nice, he will do so. But if you show him off the bat that you will be happy with just lounging on the couch and doing nothing, that is exactly what you will get from him forever. If he is going off the bat, wining and dining you, like any man who likes a woman should, Then he deserves a nice dinner (and only dinner) at your house. And that should not be to soon till about  at least a month later.

You also need to know that what you do should never exceed what a man does for you. If he buys you flowers, that doesn't  mean you need to buy him a gold watch. If he takes you to the movies, it does not mean you need to make him dinner and give him the goods. what you do in return should be equal or less than what you get. The reason why is, the goal is to always have something for a man to strive for, NEVER be attainable. There should be something about you that you always be out of his reach. You want him to remain interested right? so what you need to do is hold back some things in order to gain. And sure you can take him to dinner once in a blue, buy him something nice. But that is when you got the ring and the contract. And that means when you are married. Because by that time you are one. What his is yours and what yours is yours lol.