Do you have a boyfriend? or a loser!!!!!!



When you first date, everything is soooo sweet, he picks you up on time, he takes you where you want to go, but then after like 2 dates. This fool ends up at your house, eating up alllll your food and you are so desperate to go out you start paying for dates and it comes to the point you have to fight with him to get up off your couch and do anything period!


How did it come to this? and why are you putting up with it???? well as soon as the relationship begins you need to set ground rules from the jump and if he is bails early, don't fret! at least you know now you were dealing with a man instead of a boy. I know the economy is super bad right now. but sorry. we live in a wonderful country called America and there is no excuse for a man to not find a creative way to have a nice evening. There are discount sights that you can have 2 for 1 date. so there is nooooo excuse period! but aside from than. how much do you allow when you first meet a guy? do you give it up too soon? are you having him come over your house quick? do you show how needy you are in wanting a relationship? do you allow him to call you days apart, come late. back out on dates and lie? NEVER! submit to ANY man! okay! if you want true happiness please know its never easy and if you take the easy way out. you will be miserable. A man likes  a woman with a back bone, you tell him EXACTLY what you want in a man and if he cannot comply? its on to the next one!!!

You need to know what this mans goals are in life. Does he have a job he has been on longer than a year? did he go to school or is going to school. Does he have no kids or a whole gaggle of children? does he take care of himself? or is he a beer guzzling, popcorn chicken eating bum? You are looking for the long haul, you don't need some guy quitting his job after he meets you, only to live in your house and use up all your resources! check out his shoes and his hands. If they look horrible, most likely, his life is and if he wears sneakers all the time, especially if he is over his 30's he has more problems than you think! But if you want a winner YOU need to act like one and not waste your time with men that aren't. There are too many out there for you to be dealing with. So in short, don't allow just any ol thing to come into  your life and consistency is the key. if he starts with flowers and dates, he should always be that way. If he is interested in getting into your house. RUN! he is trying to find a new place to lay his lazy head. Let him go back home to mommy!



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