Why can't I get a date!!!



It has all happened to us. The good old dry spell. No matter how much we put ourselves out there, we cannot find a date or even get a man to look in our direction. Why does this happen you ask? there are several factors that can attribute to you being all on your lonesome:

1. facial expressions:  how do you look when you are walking around? do you have and soft inviting face? or do you have a scowl? Take into consideration how hard it is for a man to approach a woman. Your face may give him reason to veer away.

2. picking the wrong places to meet a guy: sorry, the club will not be the ideal place to meet a fella really. You would have better time finding a guy in the dark! You need to reevaluate the places you are looking for a man

3. Man Energy equals man response: I know it sounds hella silly. But don't you notice that when you are dating a man, other men come out of the woodwork! why is that? who knows? but since you have no man to begin with you need to have some of that synthetic energy. Hang around with a guy friend. and while you are at it, pick his brain about how men are and what they do. Not only will you gain insight, but you will get some of that energy to rub off on you.

4. In the same ol rut: since your last break up. You haven't done much of anything. haven't gone anywhere interesting or did anything exciting. You have to break routine, go to a muse am, see a play. Hell go hiking! try something new. You may bump in to mr right!

5. You want it too bad: sometimes we are soo lonely we want to be with someone soooooo much, and that is all we think about. its funny, when you give up, that is when he comes! keep yourself occupied with other things and don't sweat being without a man. the less needy you appear to be they more appealing you are to men trust me!

6. Just toooo damn sloppy!: yes I said it! maybe you are alone cause you are a walking hot mess! fix the hair! eat better and go to the gym! get yourself together and not walk around like a frump! looking boring in dress will influence your attitude which is a bright sign to men to stay away. So clean your life up!

Comments

  1. Smell the CoffeeOctober 9, 2011 at 5:56 PM

    You've got many valid points. I know that in forming relationships, facial expressions are definitely KEY. They can be used to either attract or detract people. A smile speaks wonders and actually constitutes an icebreaker.

    However, there have been times when I have purposely carried a scowl on my face to keep people (men+women) away. And it worked.

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