Play the game! if men do it why can't you!



In this crazy society, women are conditioned to stay in line. We get slut shamed if we date more than one man. Even though it’s okay for men to date, sleep with how many women they want. They get all the advantages and power. They can have as many women as they want. They can keep them up in the air with their “friends with benefits” mind games and not have to feel sorry when they toss women aside for the upgrade. Women do not recognize that they have power. We have been too submissive for too long. It’s not all our fault. We are hardwired to care for others, to nurture, to love more. We have to be this way because we are the ones that create children and have to rear them. But these instincts fail us in the rules of dating. We have the need to please and nurture even when we are not getting what we want. We have the need to compromise just so our mate will be happy. This fails us and we have to learn to start being more selfish. If you want a better life, and a better chance at love, you will have to change your way of thinking to make this happen. Being compromising will not cut it. You have to date a lot of men to pick the best one. You will have to be low key on how many men you are dating and keep whatever man you are dating in the dark. That is bad right? WRONG! You have to beat men at their own game. When a man likes you, he usually wine and dines you. As soon as he gets you, all those things start to slow down! You know why? Because it was a game! You are a challenge and a man will pull all stops to get you. And after that? Who knows? How you keep him is all up to you. (Thank goodness you now have a book for that! Lol.)

If a man wants a woman younger than you, he will get her, if he wants thinner woman than you, he will get her. So if you want a certain type of man. You need to go get yours! There is no time in this life for you to spend all your energy on one man. If you look job, you do not apply for one, you apply for many in hopes that you get the right one, same concept in dating. You date as many men as you can till you find the right one for you. And then drop the rest when you have a solid commitment. No one is saying that you have to sleep with all of them, but you have to look at it like a job. You need to interview them. Take time to know them and asses if they are someone worth your time. And if they aren’t, drop them like a bad habit. Dating one man is a time waster. All the time you are focusing on him, you are missing out on other potential men. The more you have in your stable, the bigger your choices. Not only that, you will learn about dating more with practice. Also, you will not be so clingy to one man because you will have other choices at your fingertips. (A pair and a spare technique is in my book).  You are valuable and men will have to work harder to get your attention. And when the one comes, even then you should have just one more guy hanging around. No man is worth all of your attention till he gives you the ring and the contract (marriage)

Do not feel guilty; don’t you want the best in your life? Then play men at their own game, but play it smart and you will end up on top!

Please look at the link of my book to gain insight and learn how to regulating the game!

http://www.amazon.com/Regulating-Turning-dating-tables-favor-ebook/dp/B00JZ96BLY/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1398699491&sr=1-1&keywords=regulating+the+game

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