The reason you are having problems in your relationships is staring you in the face.....




Sometimes we can stand in our own way when it comes to finding the right person to be in a relationship with. Some times we think in terms of "will he like me?" "am I good enough for him" when you should be saying, is he good enough for me!!there are so many deadly sins that women attempt and they have no idea that maybe they are the ones responsible for being alone. A lot of women say there are no good men, when in turn, there are good  men, But they keep looking for the BAD ones! accepting unacceptable behavior, doing things sexually that they feel uncomfortable with, Rewarding bad behavior and so on. Its not good to put yourself down (please look at my "why are you beating yourself up? post) go out of your way for a man that does not go out of his way for you and so on. Having a bad attitude and over bearing behavior, lack of femininity are many more bad qualities you may be harboring. You have to do some closet cleaning with your soul. How do you see yourself. Do you think you are worthy of love? what are the behaviors or actions that are prohibiting you from having that special someone? you must ask and answer these questions. How to solve them? well I have all the tips to help you along the way when My book is finished ;)


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