Have the sex talk and get what you want!!!



 



When in a relationship. sex is a very important factor. Two partners in the relationship are like two different radio stations, you have to keep tuning it till its right and clear. Its very important to have a very candid, intimate conversation to your partner so you get what you want sexually and you can learn how to please him  more. some say being spontaneous is better, however. what if you get everything but that little thing you like(insert sexual like here lol)  what if there is something he likes but did not know he liked until you mentioned it ;) this is your opportunity to have the best sex ever, the more detailed you are in your desire, the better it should be and both of you can get it on!

So okay. how do we bring this up eh? well be extravagant and classy like every regulating woman should!

  • Have a candle light dinner with nice music to set the mood
  • Give him a note pad
  • Wear glasses (men love this)
  • Wine and chocolates are good
  • Dress in lingerie
 Now here is where it gets good! announce to him that you are going to have a "sex meeting" tell him that you want to make sure that you both get the most out of your experience together. ask him to tell you want he likes.Tell him to write it down. You will do the same and then exchange notepads. then the negotiating begins! what are you willing to do? how long? how many times? will you do it at all? and after all the dust settles? do it!!! he will marvel at your creativity, you will appreciate his effort to satisfy and all should be happy. once a month you should have a "follow up" meeting to smooth out any kinks (pardon the pun lol) and to collaborate on new sexual and romantic adventures. It will keep the relationship fresh and solid. And most of all you will be Regulating the Game!

















 


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