Are you attracted to bad boys??




Ever since we were little girls in the school yard, we always liked the bad boy. You know, the boy that pulled out hair and ran away. Since that day, we have gravitated to the bad boy. He is always hot looking, devilishly seductive, fun to look at, and super hot and irresistible. They always keep your blood pumping and the sexy is always good and interesting. But there is a bad side to all the fun. Bad boys are spreading the love to everybody! they make no apologies to their womanizing ways and they don't care who's hearts they stomp on in the end. So why are you STILL after them? what is it about a bad boy that makes you come back for more? and is this good or bad for you?

Most women like the bad boy because subconsciously the bad boy represents what a masculine man should be. Long gone are the days of the type of man that is goes to hunt, fights for his family in sword fights and such, so our ideas have changed as to what a man really is and we have helplessly turned to the media for some guidance and boy do they have it all wrong! The so called masculine man is a womanizing man usually. More concerned with how hot he looks in a car than loving and caring for a woman. He oozes sexuality. He is smooth in the way he walks and talks,But hold up! he is a smart aleck, always keeping women on their toes and waiting by the phone. And yet he gets alllllll the women while the nice guy is left in the wind.


But you are still after him! we all like adventure, but if love is what you are truly looking for, I'm sorry. This man is not for you. The nice guy is. You just have to see the reasons why.

1. Nice guys are reliable, you do not have to wonder if they will be out all night with the boys, they are too tired from working.

2. Nice guys are attentive, they try to get to know you and they are thoughtful to the things  you need.

3. Nice guys plan for the future, they know what they want in life and they work toward just that!

There are many more reasons why they are better but I understand where you are coming from "but bad boys are fun! I do not want some boring, predictable man at my beck and call!" if you find the nice guy, encourage his adventurous side! tell him what you want. you are not changing him by any means, but if you want him to sneak up behind you and give you the business (wink, wink) tell him! any man can plug into his carnal instinct and do this. A bad boy is a perpetual child. He is living life in the moment and you are just a sentence in his book of living. If fun for the moment is on your mind, hey, this guy is for you. but ALOT of drama comes with him. Ex (or Current girlfriends), possible STD's and criminal records, not to  mention the  love of drugs and grass (and i don't mean the kind you like to have a picnic on!)


Change is good. Nothing wrong with going out with the man  you see in the building  you work in everyday. He had potential. he goes to work everyday!!!! so he may not dress like the hottest guy, but he is  consistent. A man consistent in a job is like likely in other areas. So give nice guy a try!












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