Regulating the Game: Controlling YOUR dating world

The problem most women have in the dating game is that they are willing to give to much and get nothing in return. Sometimes we have to hold back in order to gain. And I mean holding back the sex, the niceness, the overall attention that many women shower on men constantly. The key thing to remember always is men are hunters by nature. They love the thrill of the hunt. If you give them their meal early, they may hunger for it and gobble it up, but later they will be hungry and ready to eat again. And it will not be the same meal lol. So with that being said, you must make yourself a challenge, stop being so easy. so willing to please. Men will take that kindness for weakness and you will for sure get hurt in the long run. Now, I'm not saying you need to take take take and give nothing in return, but what I'm saying is that you need not give when nothing is being given to  you, and that can take the form of affection, gifts, and whatever you primarily desire. You do not reward...

Like I mentioned in my post about toxic friends. A lot of your success in dating is all about the energy you have in your life.  energy  influences you health, your mood and overall success in anything in life. It even goes as deep as you hypnotizing yourself to fail at everything. If you say to yourself "I'm not good, hot, pretty, smart, thin, enough to have a man" there are going to be things that you actually do to make that come to fruition.  Home work assignment: I want you to consciously pay attention to what you think about and say during the day. Can you see how much negative stuff you say? complaining about being on line, how much you hate your co-worker, traffic, missing the bus/train. Take notice if you are ever grateful for the good things that happen in your day and in  your life. "sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me" when the truth is that words do hurt. Our body is made up over 60% of water, A researcher b...