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Do you have a boyfriend? or a loser!!!!!!

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When you first date, everything is soooo sweet, he picks you up on time, he takes you where you want to go, but then after like 2 dates. This fool ends up at your house, eating up alllll your food and you are so desperate to go out you start paying for dates and it comes to the point you have to fight with him to get up off your couch and do anything period! How did it come to this? and why are you putting up with it???? well as soon as the relationship begins you need to set ground rules from the jump and if he is bails early, don't fret! at least you know now you were dealing with a man instead of a boy. I know the economy is super bad right now. but sorry. we live in a wonderful country called America and there is no excuse for a man to not find a creative way to have a nice evening. There are discount sights that you can have 2 for 1 date. so there is nooooo excuse period! but aside from than. how much do you allow when you first meet a guy? do you give it up too soon? are ...

Signs when its time to go.................

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In order to be in a happy relationship, you need to know when to leave. WTF!?!!?!? I know what you are thinking, but if you are in a happy relationship, you are in one because you know what a bad relationship is, therefore you can contrast good and bad. So whether you are in a relationship now, or looking to be in a relationship. There are signs to look out for so that you know when to go: 1. His time is unaccounted for and you cannot locate where he is 2. Constant arguing 3.you seem to go out of your way to please him 4. what you say or do is never right 5.He doesn't try to be understanding when you tell him your feelings 6.more interested in sex than romance and affection. There are more that I will reveal in my upcoming book........ The thing is that leaving is scary. But the longer you stay in, the harder it will be to go. You have to realize that having peace always is better than you being miserable, take it from me. I was in a bad relationship for years, I ba...